Archive for October, 2009


Another Monday hits me..
Bright sun rays woke me from a very peaceful sleep..
Said to myself, its another day.. first thought that hit me “WORK,” definitely its gonna be a day at my station.. Well, that’s life when your working.. I continuously look for ways, in spite of the discouragement that I hear.. I’m still kicking and hitting it “HARD.”
Achieve something for the day
Be at my best!


A favor

Love is a statement. A simple word. sometimes useless, unless acted by a person to another. It would be great feeling. As so many people would, or i would say for that matter. Caring for someone, showing concern, giving priority, giving time, understanding, and so many things that we do, so that we make the other person feel how special he/she is in our life. And If you’d ask many people to describe “Love” or “What is love for them?” most common word that you would hear is TRUST and HONESTY.

But when those elements are not present in the the relationship anymore. I don’t think there’s any reason to stay in that situation. Your the only one who’s compensating for one’s shortcoming. Its a give and take relationship to be fair and just to one another.

To a friend that I know. Is he’d be mad at you. Just for a reason that you checked his phone? Something must be wrong. Normally he wont react if he has nothing to hide.. Honesty, by that he’s guilty. He’d go ahead and blame you or turn the story around. Better make up your mind. Stay in that situation where your the only one who’s making effort or set yourself free of the misery and trouble. There are many more who is much more worthy of your care and affections.

till next time..

8th Month

Another month with the woman I love..
We are on our 8th month.. 4 more months before our 1st anniversary.
The are already trial and problems that we are facing and handling..
But we are always on our feet to make a stand and hand-in-hand against the trials that we are facing..
I always here for us!

I Love you mhei! I Love you babY!
Love you both

monday error

The “Monday” post which I had blogged. Had no intentions or what so ever to dismay, endanger, or have any doubts towards my relationship with “Shiela.”
I was just bothered by so many things and problems. although she knows about this. But, the blog meant something else for her. And I just would like to ask for an apology. I know our ideas didn’t connive at that time, but I’m doing everything to patch up things.
The best thing that I can do here is to “delete” the previous blog. Which caused misunderstanding between us.

-Bottom line-
Before reacting to anything that has been said and done. Try to know the other side of the story.
I love you “Shiela Marie Balingan” and to the other person with you.. I love you both..

Its Saturday

Its already Saturday..
I need to go home to my hometown..
2 and a half hours of travel wouldn’t be bad..
I need to attend the commemoration of my father’s 1st death anniversary..

Have a great weekend..

Horoscope for Friday 16, 2009

Aries Horoscope
(Mar 21 – Apr 19)
Your key planet Mars charges into your 5th House of Creativity and Children, motivating you to rediscover your inner child. You are more likely to engage in enjoyable activities now, especially ones that allow you to express what’s in your heart. Don’t be too eager to grow up; instead, play music or sports, or begin a project that brings out your joyful side.

Taurus Horoscope

(April 20 – May 20)
Your well-balanced approach to work today can attract extra points in your favor. Your boss might even be enamored with your positive attitude now, but he or she probably isn’t seeing you too clearly. Don’t play into the confusion by muddying everything you say with too many words. Instead, let your actions speak for you. Walk your talk to make your best impression.

Gemini Horoscope

(May 21 – June 20)
Although your life seems to get busier now that Mars is in your 3rd House of Immediate Environment, you’ll probably float through the day without being overly concerned. You are a person on a mission today and very little can come between you and your goals, but your sense of balance may be a little off. For the best results continue on your current path with as little change as possible.

Cancer Horoscope
(June 21 – July 22)
You are trying to maintain a sense of equilibrium, but the complexity of your home life could spill over into the larger picture. Your immediate reaction to a personal issue might be so strong that you should think twice about what you’re going to do before letting an adrenaline rush determine your future. If you have any doubts at all, sit with your answer a while and then let it go.

Leo Horoscope
(July 23 – August 22)
Your life is about to take off now that fiery Mars has entered your outgoing sign. Your energy level is high as you pick up the pace of your walk, exercise the power of your positive thoughts and appear happier than before. But be careful of losing perspective; too much confidence can pull in resistance from others.

Virgo Horoscope
(August 23 – September 22)
You often work quietly behind the scenes, and Mars’ entry into your 12th House of Secrets suggests that something continues to brew within your subconscious. Fortunately, you don’t have to wait before taking the next step in your journey. Balance what’s most important to you with what’s important for your partner. Then do what makes the most sense, even if no one notices right away. In the long run, your attempts to be fair will make a difference.

Libra Horoscope
(September 23 – October 22)
There’s a lot of good news floating around in your world today, yet unfortunately the positive energy cannot last. The Moon’s return to your sign reemphasizes the role of your feelings in all that you do. Don’t try to hide, even if you are more sensitive than usual. As long as you don’t overcompensate with extreme reactions, your current uncertainty will fade, leaving you with a clearer vision of your future.

Scorpio Horoscope
(October 23 – November 21)
You are entering a phase where your ruling planet Mars is visiting your 10th House of Career. You have abundant energy now to apply yourself toward professional ambitions and community projects. But you must convince yourself that’s it’s okay to work for your own success now or to take a few days off to hide from all the demands being placed on you. Don’t give in to other people’s expectations; stick to being true to yourself.

Sagittarius Horoscope
(November 22 – December 21)
Getting together with a group of like-minded people or hanging out with a bunch of friends might be the best thing you can do for yourself right now. As you move toward the Sunday morning New Moon in gracious Libra, you may feel as if you are ready to turn over a new leaf. But you cannot begin the next course of your life until you finish what’s already on your plate.

Capricorn Horoscope

(December 22 – January 19)
You may be quite unrealistic today about the potential of your current job, for the Sun-Neptune trine enables you to believe nearly anything. You are able to see well beyond the present moment, yet it’s tough to discern your fantasies from the truth. Make sure that you have enough time to accomplish your goals and to deliver on your current promises rather than dreaming about your future.

Aquarius Horoscope
(January 20 – February 18)
You are stepping into a new realm of relationships now that Mars is in your 7th House of Partners. If you get lazy and just try to be what others expect, your friends seem to grow more highly energized while you grow weary just trying to keep up with them. Remember, you don’t have to project all your energy onto others or you’ll just be left feeling tired. Instead of giving away your power, use it.

Pisces Horoscope
(February 19 – March 20)
You may attempt to maintain a sense of detachment today, but it’s easy to get sucked into someone’s vortex of complex emotions. Your challenge is to show your interest and compassion without losing your own perspective. Letting down your guard now is tricky business. Your best defensive strategy might be to concentrate as much as you can on your work, without leaving too much time to wander into unknown relationship territory.

My hatred to my father

Sometimes we despise a father….

Why? Well, its because they have so many things to say..
so much wisdom.. that sometimes isn’t actually important..
sometimes it would seem awkward and sometimes boastful, they brag too much of what they have achieved..
They are sometimes confusing with the commands they give..
They become bossy, even though they can accomplish those simple task. they’ll ask their son, daughter, or even their wife to do it for them – lazy dog -.
I would consider it if He’d be really sick or bed-ridden..
Even though he would say that your my child, you should “obey” me.. Yes, i would obey him, but not to the extreme..
If that’s the case, He should have got himself a housemaid..
I hated my father for the way he treated me. Although it helped me grow a bit, the thing that grew in me was hatred..
I missed out so many things during my growth, my childhood, my schooldays, and even up to my college life.

if you’d agree or disagree..
please do comment..
peace out.


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A Righteous Sleep

after 3days of work and no sleep.. i finally had a chance to have a sleep.. its just a 5hrs of sleep, but still i finally had a sleep..